I'm 39, just got divorced from a 14yr marriage. My ex was 11yrs. older than me and the last 3yrs. has been the worst. I've probably had s*x a total of 9 times in the past 3yrs. I don't mean to come off strong but, I must say that I'm extremely sexually frustrated. I'm not looking for a new relationship yet, just really need to relieve some sexual tension. I'm an athletic build black man, and soft spoken for the most part. I love conversations and I'm a great listener as well. I'm 6 feet tall and weighs 220. I highly doubt anyone is going to respond to my profile, I haven't been in the dating game in years and I so feel like a rookie.