I have been widowed and single for some years now and it has really weighed me down in so many things, but am ready to move forward now and be happy once again. I know for sure that every one has so many to say about life, but no matter what,life has to continue. Now I'm down, thinking about my past and realized something about love. Affectionate Love hurts and at times brings joy. You have to take the risk in other to be happy in whatever you do,and see where it leads u to. Like i said,it my first time on this internet dating and i know what i am looking for in a woman.The fact that someone shows a bit of interest does not mean they are a suitable match for you.In the end, it isn’t just strong affection or love that makes a relationship work. It’s how compatible you are and how you deal with the little day-to-day things that count. The only way to truly discover what you need from a relationship is to actually plan and research exactly what you want. I believe love has gone far nowadays and we all need to be honest and be good in other to make things happen for each other.