Retired, alone after being a widower for 11 years. Have decided the thought of never waking in the morning and finding a happy woman by my side was unbearable. I will never marry again but then people of an age know it throws up tremendous problems with family and inheritance. That doe not mean I cannot be loyal , trustworthy and truly loving to the right person. I am told I don't look my age, keeping my hair helps with that. having a s*x life has suddenly become important to me and one never forgets the joys that come from intimacy .I spend all my spare time jhelping with Oxfam and I tend to ignore house work.