YOU AND I ARE STRANDED IN THE DESERT. You have the only piece of meat. I have the only water. We both agree that we should join together and make soup. However, if you believe that the meat has a greater value than the water, Then neither of us can have the soup that we BOTH want and need. STOP right there. LOVE works exactly like that.
If the following is to long for you to read, then I'm not the right guy for YOU. But you can only understand the rest of my message with you heart.
I realize that being in love feels like you could live on love. That you don't need food, the other person takes your breath away. These are the emotional feelings of LOVE. THEY ARE REAL, AND WE SHALL HAVE THEM.
But without TRUST there can be no LOVE.
Romance is the ability to transfer pleasant feelings from one person to another.
I want to share a romance with YOU.
To love is the ability to join not only our bodies, but our emotions.
our souls if you would. I want you to be my soul mate.
If you can do this then I promise you happiness on a level that you've never experienced before.
And isn't happiness the only thing that matters? Because when you're not happy nothing else
matters.
If you truly want the joy, the magnificent, the majesty that LOVE can bring into your life.
Then you must be willing to join with the right person of course, your mind, your emotions
your body, and your soul. There is one more thing that we must do in order to bring LOVE
into our life's. WE MUST BE ABLE TO TRUST EACH OTHER !!
TRUST IS THE THING THAT BINDS ALL OF THE OTHER THINGS TOGETHER.
WITHOUT TRUST THERE CAN BE NO LOVE.
RELATIONSHIPS AND LOVE AFFAIRS ARE TYPES OF DEALS.
The number one reason for the break up of most relationship
is that the parties never discuss the terms of the deal.
That is to say what they expect from each other.
You and I shall not make that mistake.
In order for the parties to have a successful relationship they must be clear
on what the term of the relationship are. That is to say what they
expect from each other. Sometimes your passion lay right outside your door,
other times it lay on the other side of the world. I don't want you to think about
how far away I am, if you're the one I'm looking for we'll be together soon.
Like you I'm not looking for a long distance relationship either.
A fair Deal is a Deal in which both people are receiving exactly what
they want from the deal, and no one is being taken advantage of .
I think that's the most important thing, don't you?
WELL HERE I AM
I'm 5-10, slim, handsome, smart, I don't drink (it's fine if you drink), smoke, or do drugs
well dressed, well groomed, funny, and fun. I love a good Si Fi,
mystery, or slap stick movie, as well as a good love story
( yes I'm a guy and I said that, smile).
Can I cook? Would you like Asian stir fried or Soul Food. Who cleans the house ?
In the absents of a maid. YOU and I. As in both of us. Not just you.
I know what you're thinking, you're thinking, How am I as a lover?
I'm shocked at your question (smile). I'll just say this about that, a good
lover is one who pays close attention to the little things that pleases his
partner and then, does those things. And with your permission I'm going to be
paying close attention to YOU.
Am I unique ! Maybe not! But I'm really nice (smile).
You must be monogamous and SO WILL I. Weight and Height proportionate
and a non smoker.
If you ever hope to find LOVE, you must never
let your mind become the ruler over your heart.
The two must work in unison. Just as you and I will
always work together for the common good of the relationship.
When I find the lady I'm looking for the two of us are going to live together in
your home. We shall always work together for the common good. This is not a game,
don't worry I pay all of my own expenses. I need nothing from you except LOVE,
I shall return that. I have no interest in your bank account, all that you have, and all that YOU are, belongs to YOU. And shall continue to belong to you. To me it doesn't matter whether you're a world class beauty, or not, because if we love each other, then in my eyes that's what you'll be. MANY PEOPLE ON THIS SITE CLAIM THAT THEY WOULD DO MANY THINGS FOR LOVE. MY REQUEST IS A SIMPLE ONE. YOU MUST LEAVE ME A MESSAGE.
BUT WHO AM I REALLY? In it's simplest terms,
I'm just a guy, in search of a girl, who's willing to open her heart so that I might fill it with joy. Is she you ?